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		<title>How to Avoid the &#8220;Crazy Chick&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jan 2011 23:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kellilawless</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Confusing, man-eating, delicate flowers... yes, I know. Navigating the world of women when you are firmly in the Y chromosome category pose challenges that test the courage of many a man-child. Some men are lucky/smart enough to get a gal pal or two to decode the mysteries. Some men cannily do the research... things like reading good blogs on dating and mating in America or even getting a dating coach. But some poor sods continue to mope over a beer with the guys and bewail recent blunders, innocent mistakes and in short, continuing to make the same mistake again and again. Attracting the crazies.

I decided to crack the door on Pandora's Box here and give you some tips that may or may not help you navigate away from the man-eating crazy flowers and find a woman who makes your toes curl. In a good way. <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2011/01/12/crazy_women/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=945&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2011 17:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kellilawless</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We've all been there...the date where you just missed the cues... She wanted you to kiss her and you shook her hand instead. He wanted to be anywhere but there and you couldn't stop telling that story about your grandmother's teacup poodle. When you forget to pay attention to your audience...  <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2011/01/10/lets-talk-body-language/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=245&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 18:23:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ahhh, economic woes. Budgetary cutbacks really bring out the penny pincher in us all. Especially when it comes to the old social life. But how do you know whether your date thinks you&#8217;re cheap or frugal? A few simple distinctions &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2010/02/03/cheap_v_frugal/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1597&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 19:47:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s probably pretty easy to get caught up in wishing a fond (or not so fond) farewell to 2009 and welcoming in 2010 with new resolutions, pant girding parties and all sorts of other mayhem. I&#8217;m with you. While I &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/12/29/new_years_eve/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1518&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/11/11/ldr/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 17:36:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long distance romance. Plausible or just a pain?

I've been getting lots of requests for a few posts on long distance romance, so lets talk about it.

Some people claim they will go anywhere and do anything for love. Traveling every other weekend to see each other, moving states and jobs, living with a phone in their ear and keyboard under their fingers. Others scoff at the possibility of making it last claiming things like "out of sight, out of mind," "how can you really get to know someone when you aren't living close enough to each other to 'do life' together," or even that they might find love at a distance but settle for the person thats closer at hand since life is complicated enough without adding in some improbable relationship into the mix.

So, did you happen to meet someone from another city and don't know if you can make it work? Were you blissfully bumping along in the same town and then one or the other of you got transferred? Personally, I think anything is possible, but you have to know yourself well to know if long distance is a possibility for you. A long distance relationship (LDR) brings the same set of challenges a local relationship does plus the added element of needing to resolve the issues even if you can't be face to face... <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/11/11/ldr/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=872&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/09/29/detoxing_old_behavior/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 22:51:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kellilawless</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you been returning to old pastures a bit too often in the quest for your perfect person? Perhaps dating cheater after cheater or &#8220;nice but not quite&#8221; again and again? Then, you too can try the patented new detox &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/09/29/detoxing_old_behavior/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1342&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 17:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The question of the day from a reader: How long are you expected to stay loyal to a friend and not date their ex? Interesting dilemma since both guy and girl code are pretty specific on this one point&#8230; Thou &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/08/24/date_ex/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1286&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being the communicator that I am, you may be tempted to think that I&#8217;m also a fan of getting the last word. But actually&#8230; nothing could be further from the truth. The unfortunate side effect to being the &#8220;go to&#8221; &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/08/20/the-last-word/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1280&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 16:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Managing first impressions when you meet your date&#8217;s &#8220;friends&#8221; can be a challenge even for the most socially astute. I&#8217;ve never been an advocate of gamesmanship in the dating pool, but there are times and places for a bit less &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/07/22/first_meeting_survival/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1159&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What to Do When the Ex Wants You Back.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After interviewing so many people, I&#8217;ve heard stories about how getting back together was the best decision they ever made or the worst train wreck in history that ended with someone in jail. And everything in between. I suppose it &#8230; <a href="http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/07/14/ex_wants_you_back/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=datingandmatinginamerica.com&amp;blog=4053810&amp;post=1148&amp;subd=klawless&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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