Mean People Beware

Since our community keeps growing day by day, and we’ve collected a few malcontents along the way, I thought I would lay down some rules of thumb for comment posting:

  1. No mean allowed. Yup, I’m actually going to discriminate against the meanies in the online community. If you’re bashing another commenter, me or the blog itself… you shall be spammed. No exceptions. If you desire to be a nasty person, please go do it elsewhere.
  2. I welcome all points of view and actually really enjoy a good debate, discussion or exchange of ideas. Be respectful and thoughtful with any point of view and to the spam box you shall NOT go.
  3. I try to respond to comments, so if you leave one… please check back in to catch the discussion you generated.
  4. I understand that commenting is a great way to cross-pollinate blogs and communities, so I welcome a link to your own site. I only ask that you comment something relevant to the discussion along with your link so I’ll know you aren’t some spam-bot.
  5. My policy is to try to be fair and even handed when it comes to the sexes. If you read a post and I’ve used more he than she, you can fairly safely assume that for the sake of readability I limited the (s)hes and hers/his for every example. Sometimes I’ll specify the post for one sex or the other, but I’m usually pretty clear about that. So please know that both men and women are supported on this forum and male or female bashing in a comment is likely to send your comment to the spam box. After all… who really needs more of that in this world?
  6. And for those of you who like to steal content, this content is copyright protected so I really wouldn’t recommend posting my words unless you link back to my site. If there’s anything that gets a writer riled… it’s catching a content poacher in action. Besides, you’ll like yourself a whole lot more if you actually do your own work. *grin*

Thanks for playing by the rules and hopefully they don’t feel too constricting for my rule flaunting brethren!

Kelli

5 Responses to Mean People Beware

  1. Hi Kelli :)

    I’m writing on behalf of Thread.com, a dating site that implements Facebook Connect to help people meet friends of friends. I’m wondering if you would be willing to test out the site and let us know what you think as a dating expert.

    We also have a blog: http://sofalabs.wordpress.com and we’d be up for cross-posting content as well :)

    And I just followed you on Twitter!

    Please let me know! It would really be a great help.

    Have a nice day, Kelli,

    Keane
    http://twitter.com/thread
    threadblog@gmail.com

  2. Hi Kelli,

    I am the creator of “dating Kiwi” (http://www.datingkiwi.com) a new website which focus on putting together relevant information about the dating and relationship worlds.

    I just came across your site and really like your articles. I would love to post some of them on my site if that’s ok with you. Of course, all articles I post have links to their original authors.

    Please visit my site and let me know what do you think. Do not hesitate to contact me with any questions you may have.

    Best,

    Pablo Regen
    dating Kiwi
    http://www.datingkiwi.com

  3. Good advice. I think more boundaries ought to be practiced with netiquette. Wouldn’t it be grand to practice these types of courtesies in person as well? Thank you for promoting a safer world!

  4. Hi Kelli,

    I was wondering if I could post a guest post article with attached bio link? Thanks

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