Monthly Archives: June 2011

Gone Fishing!

To My Readers,

I’m going on vacation. Yes, it includes travel, but it also means me giving these fingers a break and enjoying some time NOT looking at a computer screen. I’ll be back at the end of the summer.

In the meantime, please enjoy some of the archived posts… there are some goodies that you may have missed over the years.

Ciao!

Kelli

How To Be A Nice Guy With An Edge

Do you totally identify with the old saying “nice guys finish last?” Well, maybe it’s not your niceness that’s killing your chances with the ladies… perhaps you need to hone your “edge.

From last week’s post: Your “edge” is all about confidence in yourself and your decisions. Not bragging. Not ego. Just confidence.

So, how do you hone your edgy nice guy skills? Continue reading

It’s Not The Nice Guys Who Finish Last…

You’ve all heard the saying “nice guys finish last.” And I’m betting that many of you have embraced it as truth. If you have, I’m going to make you a bit uncomfortable with this post because I don’t believe it. I do believe that any number of things can hamstring a guy’s ability to “get” the girl, but I don’t think being “nice” is one of them.

First, let’s make sure that your “nice guy” and my “nice guy” definitions line up. Continue reading

What Are You Using To Bait Your Hook?

I’ve long been of the opinion that what you do to “catch” someone is what you have to do to “keep” that certain someone. If you’ve been reading my blog for any length of time, you’ve seen me write about it before.

Last week, I was listening to a truly awesome sermon series by Andy Stanley and he expanded on that premise. He was talking about the commoditization of women and how prevalent it is in our culture today. He first made us all laugh by bringing up the fact that every time a dude comes up with a cult idea it includes some divine reason that he needs to have sex Continue reading