The good news about lameboys… they have a hard time actually snagging a girl, so your odds are good that you’ll very quickly wash them out of your dating rotation if you’re at all observant of the obvious hints that you have a lameboy on your hands. Lame guys do lame things. The challenge is to avoid going out with one at all since some of them actually have preliminary game. (Guys — you can apply all these points to spotting a lamegirl too.)
How to Spot a Lameboy: Continue reading
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This topic is reader request: How do you handle when your new love interest asks you how many sexual partners you’ve had?
Hummmm… well, you all know that I’m a huge proponent of communication and honesty in a relationship. And that I think game playing is a waste of time. I still believe all of that, but this topic is one where I’d advise you to tread lightly.
Let’s look at how men and women typically handle this kind of information. Continue reading
I was thinking about all the “schools of thought” there are on the “correct” way to “catch” someone or maximize your dating success and it occurred to me… why don’t we just listen to what our heart needs and follow that?
For example, I’ve always had better relationships with men who are willing and enjoy taking a leadership role. Not in a caveman kind of way, but men who follow the school of thought that to lead well is to know how to serve. It just works for me. Opens my heart and spirit to receive more gracefully than if I am forced into a role where I have to make all the decisions or do the pursuing. But that doesn’t mean that it works that way for every girl. Continue reading
Posted in Advice for Girls, Advice for Guys, communication, Dating, Keeping a Date, Relationship Advice
Tagged communication, Dating, leadership, love, marriage, partnership, relationships, respect, The Rules
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Changing your “relationship status.”
For those who live and breathe social media, this little click of a button signifies a one-line piece of big news. But for people who are skeptical of the value of sharing their life with a world of partial strangers, changing that status can be a make it or break it moment in every relationship.
The real problems arise when you are dating someone who feels differently than you do about shouting out to the world that you are in a relationship. If you’re a little in doubt as to where your boyfriend or girlfriend falls on the “status change” issue, here are some tips on how to spot and communicate with the 4 most common types of social media attitudes: Continue reading
Posted in Advice for Girls, Advice for Guys, communication, Dating, Etiquette, Online Dating
Tagged communication, Dating, Facebook, life, love, myspace, relationship status, social media
A quick tip for the online daters:
Re-read your profile and ask yourself the following: Am I describing the relationship I want or the person I want?
I’d recommend describing the relationship you want and here’s why… Continue reading
Posted in Advice for Girls, Advice for Guys, Dating, Online Dating
Tagged life, love, match.com, online dating, online profile, relationship
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