The Top 8 Qualities in Women that Attract Men

You want to know what you’ve got that attracts men? Well, I’m about to tell you. With one caveat… 4 of the qualities attract men for SEX and 4 of the qualities attract men for LOVE. You can combine both and go for a double whammy, but what you focus on will most determine if you’re treated more like a Marilyn Monroe or a Grace Kelly.

Top 8 Qualities Men Are Looking For In A Woman:

You want men to look at you and start thinking about how on earth they can get you to a bed… or counter top… or…? These first 4 qualities will attract men for one reason and one reason only. Sex. If you focus on bringing attention to this first set of traits, then men will look at you and think sex, Sex, SEX. If that’s what you want… then here are your keys to getting it! (But if you want more than just sex, handle the following qualities like you would a loaded gun. Keep the safety on!)

1. Sexual Energy: Totally irresistible to most men, this is the energy a woman puts out when she wants to “put out.” From a man’s point of view, “If a woman thinks she is sexy, she is!” The down-side to this one… it’s almost impossible to be at your sexy best if you’re exhausted, stressed and worn down. The balancing act for all modern women, right? Finding the right balance between getting it all done and taking good enough care of yourself that you don’t look like a worn out Raggedy Ann doll while doing it.
2. Sensuality: This comes when a woman stops multi-tasking and really focuses on enjoying every moment. Enjoying the smell of the orange before she bites into it. Relishing the taste of the orange juice she licks off her chin and fingers. Soaking in the beautiful orange color of the peel and … well, you get the picture. Stop and smell the oranges why don’t ya!
3. Shapely body: The great news about this (besides not being #1…) guys have a much wider definition of attractive than women have been conditioned to have about ourselves. You may think you need to look like Barbie, but chances are… he doesn’t agree. Your discomfort about your body makes men uncomfortable, so embrace your curves (or lack thereof) and go attract your man.
4. Shiny hair: Gets attention because men were genetically designed to visually evaluate the fertility of a prospective partner. Back in the way back, men had less to go on when determining if a woman would be a good mate, but shiny hair at least spoke to their subconscious saying “she is young and fertile enough to spread my DNA!” The real science of the matter? Before silicone sprays came along, the only way a women had shiny hair was if she had enough body fat to reproduce. Whether or not a guy actually wants to have children, shiny hair still gets his attention.

The 4 qualities that inspire love… to be continued…

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Alison Armstrong shares these qualities in several of her talks, but if you really want to hear the science and research behind the evidence, then pick up her book “Making Sense of Men” or better yet… check out one of her workshops on Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women.