Monthly Archives: May 2010

How To Ask A Girl Out (Dating 101)

Posted on May 26, 2010 | 11 Comments

If you’ve been spinning your wheels in the dating world, it may be time to re-visit the basics. Here is a simple 5 step process to follow when asking a girl out on a date. It’s pretty much guaranteed to get you a “yes” if she’s interested and available.

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Posted in Advice for Guys, Dating, Etiquette, Finding a Date

The Top 8 Qualities In Women That Attract Men (Continued)

Posted on May 21, 2010 | 3 Comments

Continuing on from talking about the qualities that attract sex, these 4 qualities are for the women who want more than just sexual attention. These qualities are the kinds of things that inspire the right kind of guy fall in love with his right kind of girl. These are for the women who want men to be “charmed and enchanted.” Who want to spend affectionate time with the men they care about. Who want to be cared for and protected. Who wants the man she loves to want to contribute to her life and make her happy. Based on what you’re used to, this may sound too good to be true. But if you desire love, this is the list for you… Continue reading →

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The Top 8 Qualities in Women that Attract Men

Posted on May 19, 2010 | 5 Comments

You want to know what you’ve got that attracts men? Well, I’m about to tell you. With one caveat… 4 of the qualities attract men for SEX and 4 of the qualities attract men for LOVE. You can combine both and go for a double whammy, but what you focus on will most determine if you’re treated more like a Marilyn Monroe or a Grace Kelly.

Top 8 Qualities Men Are Looking For In A Woman: Continue reading →

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He’s Looking for a Partner More Than a Playmate: How to write an online profile attracting guys in their 30′s and early 40′s

Posted on May 13, 2010 | 8 Comments

Picking up where we left off,  guys in the 30-45ish range still need adventure, but their focus has shifted more towards building. They want to build their career. They want to build their skill levels. They want to build their relationships. They are focused on creating the framework in which their future will rest.

This guy is all about finding a quality girl who can help him with that process. Continue reading →

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Your Biological Clock Scares Him: How to write an online profile attracting a guy in his 20′s – early 30′s

Posted on May 11, 2010 | 5 Comments

These guys in their 20′s and early 30′s are looking for adventure, fun and a challenge. They live life in the present and tend to be very passionate about interests, dating and life in general. Talking about “settling down” will not only be the kiss of death in your online profile, it will also be met with resistance or even blank stares when out on a date.

Not all guys in this age range fit into this “stage,” so you may be surprised by a few who start talking babies and marriage. But for the most part, if you write a profile targeting this stage, you’ll attract guys in this time of life. Alison Armstrong calls it the “Knight” stage. (For a broad overview, check out the first post in this series.)

How to focus your online profile to attract this guy’s attention: Continue reading →

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Know the Stages and Write a Better Online Profile

Posted on May 5, 2010 | 9 Comments

After reading John Eldredge‘s book “Wild at Heart,” I definitely got the idea that men NEED different things than (most) women do. Yes, I like adventure and appreciation and respect… but I’m not exactly driven by those concepts the same way it seems that many men are.

Cut to a few years later and I’m hearing about the same manly needs from another source, just framed a bit differently. Alison Armstrong’s goal is to help women understand and relate better with the men in our lives. She also talks about the adventure, respect and appreciation drives but more along the lines of age and development throughout men’s lives.

I like both approaches, but because Alison breaks it down by age, it seems to me like that would help women immensely when it comes to writing online profiles. Continue reading →

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