Dear Loyal Guy Readers,
I know. Women are confusing. What works for one girl fails horribly with the next and that dang mind-reading expectation… what’s that all about anyway? Well, I can’t help you with the minutia that changes between the blonde you took out last night who thought you were charming and the brunette you’re still trying to mend fences with from last week. But I CAN help you with understanding how to make most women happy. Any woman who does not respond to the following three displays of male interest is either crazy (in which case, exit stage left,) just isn’t that into you OR you totalled the relationship already (in which case, nothing I say is going to help.)
Only three things to remember:
- Women love to be appreciated.
- Women love to know that you put thought into something because you care.
- Women love to know that you’re paying attention (listening is good for this one.)
Simple right? I know… harder than it sounds, but I promise you… it works. If you’re ever completely confused by what your woman wants, throw one or all of these approaches at her and you’ll be amazed at how quickly things turn around. (Consistent use works better than emergency use only — but we aren’t all perfect — I get that.)
I hope this helps.
Your Friendly Dating Blogger
Fair Warning: Do NOT show her that you’ve been listening or express appreciation and thoughtfulness if you’re concerned that she already likes you more than you’re comfortable with, because soon you’ll be convinced she likes you way more than you like her.
Caveat: If you’ve been a cheating, lying bastard… and she caught you out… you fall into the totalled relationship category. Sorry guys. These relationship skills only work with an established or growing basis of trust. If she doesn’t trust you, the appreciation and attention will go down like cheap wine. You might have better luck with professional counselling (where the listening would pay off in huge dividends.)
