Comments on: Letting Go of the Control Freak http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/04/21/control/ A commentary on dating, culture and expectations. Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:59:20 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Expectations: The Death of Love « Dating and Mating in America http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/04/21/control/#comment-1191 Expectations: The Death of Love « Dating and Mating in America Tue, 16 Jun 2009 20:13:08 +0000 http://klawless.wordpress.com/?p=959#comment-1191 [...] been one in a relationship. If you want a more in depth look at controlling and perfectionist types read this post. But the long and short of it — perfectionist expect perfection in whatever area it is that [...] [...] been one in a relationship. If you want a more in depth look at controlling and perfectionist types read this post. But the long and short of it — perfectionist expect perfection in whatever area it is that [...]

]]> By: Hamilton http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/04/21/control/#comment-1024 Hamilton Wed, 29 Apr 2009 13:39:06 +0000 http://klawless.wordpress.com/?p=959#comment-1024 Awesome writing Kelli! Awesome writing Kelli!

]]> By: kellilawless http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/04/21/control/#comment-1013 kellilawless Sun, 26 Apr 2009 04:12:49 +0000 http://klawless.wordpress.com/?p=959#comment-1013 Isn't it amazing what happens when you learn to let go of "self" and learn to serve in love? By letting go of needing to determine the outcome, I've started to enjoy the journey so much more! Thanks for continuing the thought and inspiration Kevin *grin* Isn’t it amazing what happens when you learn to let go of “self” and learn to serve in love? By letting go of needing to determine the outcome, I’ve started to enjoy the journey so much more! Thanks for continuing the thought and inspiration Kevin *grin*

]]> By: Kevin http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/04/21/control/#comment-1004 Kevin Thu, 23 Apr 2009 04:10:20 +0000 http://klawless.wordpress.com/?p=959#comment-1004 It's amazing how pervasive a lie controlling much of anything in life really is. We can't control others and there are many times we can barely control ourselves. Here is one of those topics that brings out the truth of life: we can either choose to be a loving, patient, graceous, and kind human being; or we can choose to be a selfsish, hateful, impatient, fearful, neurotic control freak. Here's to letting go of self and learning to love! It’s amazing how pervasive a lie controlling much of anything in life really is. We can’t control others and there are many times we can barely control ourselves.

Here is one of those topics that brings out the truth of life: we can either choose to be a loving, patient, graceous, and kind human being; or we can choose to be a selfsish, hateful, impatient, fearful, neurotic control freak.

Here’s to letting go of self and learning to love!

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