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	<title>Comments on: You May Be In The &#8220;Friend Zone&#8221; If&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: kellilawless</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-3484</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 May 2011 22:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nice Job! Love to hear that it all worked out!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice Job! Love to hear that it all worked out!</p>
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		<title>By: Martin</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-3477</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Martin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2011 20:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I waited for the good moment and did it during a date (there&#039;s no word for date here we just go out!). 
These two months were long because  she sent mixed signals and I doubted... but we&#039;re actually in a relationship!
Dance was a good advice and it could be a good test, we already danced before your post and I should have known it was too close to be honest ;-)
Physical attractions and contacts are for me the key.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I waited for the good moment and did it during a date (there&#8217;s no word for date here we just go out!).<br />
These two months were long because  she sent mixed signals and I doubted&#8230; but we&#8217;re actually in a relationship!<br />
Dance was a good advice and it could be a good test, we already danced before your post and I should have known it was too close to be honest <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Physical attractions and contacts are for me the key.</p>
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		<title>By: kellilawless</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-3448</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2011 20:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good luck! I hope the kiss is all fireworks for you both! *grin*]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck! I hope the kiss is all fireworks for you both! *grin*</p>
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		<title>By: kellilawless</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-3410</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kellilawless]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 16:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;d try with something a bit less than a kiss... perhaps a night that can turn into a date? Dancing can also lead to interesting revelations on if there is a physical connection or not... especially in a Latin culture :) Good luck!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d try with something a bit less than a kiss&#8230; perhaps a night that can turn into a date? Dancing can also lead to interesting revelations on if there is a physical connection or not&#8230; especially in a Latin culture <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Martin</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-3408</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Martin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 15:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m maybe in maybe out.
 Our relation is ambiguous and sweet (with physical contacts and hugs but it&#039;s probably less revelant in a latin country) .
She&#039;s clearly seeking time with me (alone and in group) and we never talk about our other relationships/dates, I just know she&#039;s actually single.

My gut tells me nothing, girls used to not be easy to read!
I&#039;ll try to kiss her I need to know or I&#039;ll become crazy!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m maybe in maybe out.<br />
 Our relation is ambiguous and sweet (with physical contacts and hugs but it&#8217;s probably less revelant in a latin country) .<br />
She&#8217;s clearly seeking time with me (alone and in group) and we never talk about our other relationships/dates, I just know she&#8217;s actually single.</p>
<p>My gut tells me nothing, girls used to not be easy to read!<br />
I&#8217;ll try to kiss her I need to know or I&#8217;ll become crazy!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra81</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-3260</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandra81]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2011 12:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok. I&#039;m not in the friend zone, then, which is good! :-D But then, again, I&#039;m thinking about this guy whom I had a &quot;summer fling&quot; with, then had a row, and now we&#039;re &quot;friends&quot; and hang out with the same group.  However, none of us displays these &quot;friend zone&quot; behaviour patterns. So, there has been something more than platonic friendship (although it was brief).  It ended because of his hot and cold behaviour, which I didn&#039;t like, and I pulled away, telling him everything that was bothering me.  The only exception is that both of us are a bit cautious regarding one-to-one approach. We often detach ourselves from the group (something which I never do with anyone else, and neither does he, or at least not in my presence), but none of us suggested going out just the two of us.  Sometimes I want to do it, but I&#039;m a bit scared to get too close again, for fear of getting hurt. Plus, he still owes me an apology and some explanations!  On one hand, I&#039;m crazy about him, on the other one, I&#039;m really scared... :-(]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok. I&#8217;m not in the friend zone, then, which is good! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' />  But then, again, I&#8217;m thinking about this guy whom I had a &#8220;summer fling&#8221; with, then had a row, and now we&#8217;re &#8220;friends&#8221; and hang out with the same group.  However, none of us displays these &#8220;friend zone&#8221; behaviour patterns. So, there has been something more than platonic friendship (although it was brief).  It ended because of his hot and cold behaviour, which I didn&#8217;t like, and I pulled away, telling him everything that was bothering me.  The only exception is that both of us are a bit cautious regarding one-to-one approach. We often detach ourselves from the group (something which I never do with anyone else, and neither does he, or at least not in my presence), but none of us suggested going out just the two of us.  Sometimes I want to do it, but I&#8217;m a bit scared to get too close again, for fear of getting hurt. Plus, he still owes me an apology and some explanations!  On one hand, I&#8217;m crazy about him, on the other one, I&#8217;m really scared&#8230; <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: How To Be The Guy Who Gets The Girl &#171; Dating and Mating in America</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-2589</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[How To Be The Guy Who Gets The Girl &#171; Dating and Mating in America]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 16:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] got a girl with persistence and a steadfast determination to not let her put him into the &#8220;friend zone.&#8221; Another guy friend got a girl he thought was WAY out of his league just by being clear  [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] got a girl with persistence and a steadfast determination to not let her put him into the &#8220;friend zone.&#8221; Another guy friend got a girl he thought was WAY out of his league just by being clear  [...]</p>
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		<title>By: kellilawless</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-2220</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kellilawless]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 04:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ouch. That&#039;s as bad as &quot;I think of you like my brother&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ouch. That&#8217;s as bad as &#8220;I think of you like my brother&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://datingandmatinginamerica.com/2009/01/30/friend_zone2/#comment-2167</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrew]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 21:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may be in the friends zone when the girl says &quot;our core values are different and you&#039;ll find someone with the same core values as you&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may be in the friends zone when the girl says &#8220;our core values are different and you&#8217;ll find someone with the same core values as you&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Top 10 Posts of 2009: From Text to Sex &#171; Dating and Mating in America</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Top 10 Posts of 2009: From Text to Sex &#171; Dating and Mating in America]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] 7. You May Be In The Friend Zone If&#8230; [...]]]></description>
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