Comments on: What Does It Mean That He Asked Me Out For A Weekday Night?

By: Alper

Alper — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 19:22:45 +0000

oops, sory, you know the rest :)

By: Alper

Alper — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 19:19:36 +0000

elements of truth, that’s fair enough though I went by my instinct, as a scorpion, my horoscope, in the reply…yet may it be far away from me to be a nuisance between you and your bf, and I’d say that he is a lucky… you the the rest

take care,
warm regards

By: kellilawless

kellilawless — Wed, 24 Nov 2010 17:24:41 +0000

We ALL need to learn how to make time to get time — you are absolutely correct!

By: kellilawless

kellilawless — Wed, 24 Nov 2010 17:24:08 +0000

LOL — well thank you Alper. I’m not sure my boyfriend would approve of me accepting if you asked the very next day — but I’ll ask him and let you know what he says

And yes, you caught me — this post was really something more along the hypotheticals and I still get the giggles when replying to comments because there are elements of truth in the above stated opinions — but really, too many exceptions to make anything a “rule.”

By: Andrew

Andrew — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 04:41:52 +0000

Ya know,I will have to disagree. IF anyone was willing to make time for me and willing to consider me as a priority, then it does not matter if it’s a weekday or a weekend. When someone is taking time for me, even when I am busy, I make time.

Moral of the story: Make time to get time…

By: Alper

Alper — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 21:39:50 +0000

Hi there, Kelli
The plot well setup, and the translation well conveyed
yet what I wonder is whether this is a real life “ask out” or a just a hypothetical one? C’os there’s actually no need to be prejudiced over what it might mean, simply go for it and learn it for yourself rather than have !? marks in your head, unless you’re studying the nature of men, mainstream American daters, under such circumstances!

Were I the asker, I wouldn’t even wait to ask you out the very next day!
Regards
Alper

By: kellilawless

kellilawless — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 17:13:01 +0000

I guess it depends on how much you’re interested in your date.
Not at all? Then I wouldn’t bother.
Some interest — well , depending on my mood I might give it another go.
A lot of interest? Then I would take the opportunity to turn the date from something potentially bland and lifeless to something more interesting or even an outing you’d actually enjoy. That way you have fun and perhaps throw your date a curve ball. Enjoy batting practice — suggest a trip to the local cages instead of another boring coffee. Love sing-along movies — throw out the idea to go to the local theater that’s hosting a Journey tribute complete with Journey videos and local band. Make it fun and interesting and maybe… you might turn a Sunday date into a Saturday date the next weekend.

By: Leann

Leann — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 14:39:42 +0000

I am just curious… So when asked out for a Sunday date and meaning that you are the last priority… if it was a 3rd date…it is safe to say that there will be no more? So why even bother?

By: kellilawless

kellilawless — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 15:11:23 +0000

me too (there are a lot of us single folk out there)

By: a girl that likes bread

a girl that likes bread — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 10:43:24 +0000

i’m a bit peaved at jason (above) when he infers that single people lack perspective. yep…that’s right, i’m single. it’s a difficult dating world out there, and sometimes when i’m venting about my dating experiences, i just want someone to commiserate with me — not necessarily looking for answers.